An editorial appeared in our local paper which pretty much echos my thoughts. It addresses one of my major pet peeves; swearing. I grew up in household where swearing was frowned upon and my parents never uttered the f-word. My mother would occasionally say "damn", but she never dropped the f-bomb. I suppose my father, a native of Mexico, didn't have those words in his vocabulary and if he swore in Spanish, I never knew it.
I don't know the reason it has peppered our day to day language, but I am not a fan of it. It screams vulgar, commonplace, and ill-educated. Maybe I am just showing my Main Line roots here, but I fail to see the reason for dropping the f-bomb in one's daily missives.
It's not that I am offended by the word - well maybe I am. I get a kind of visceral feeling in my gut when I hear it, so maybe that's what offense feels like. I must admit I occasionally drop it myself sometimes in times of extreme anger or frustration, but I feel very bad when that happens. But overall I see no need for it, and I was really surprised - and refreshed that someone did a piece on it. Thanks!